I had a miscarriage last Friday.. Kind of graphic, but I have a lot of unanswered questions.?

I know that we had two seperate things going on, I had an abortion with pills. Now please keep reading because your symptoms were the same as mine. I bled for an entire month and had severe cramps, and I eventually got an infection. The fetus was stuck in my cervix and the only way they actually knew it was up there was because I went back into the E.R after all the scheduled ultrasounds (even when they just told me to rest and that I was perfectly fine) the doctor did an exam and seen that my cervix was completely open and removed the "debri" as he called it right then and there. I am not trying to scare you, I really do not want anyone to experience what I went thru and still am going thru to this day. I was very ill due to the mive blood loss, including clots the size of an orange. The way the E.R doctor explained it to me was that I was cramping all the time because my Uterus was spasming to try to loosen the blockage and my body was retaining blood to try force it out as I stood up or moved. Please go to the E.R before an infection set in, or something else serious happens. If I did not go I would of been dead in a week if I stayed at home.